And also with respect, you don't know with certainly that what you just typed is correct *unless* you wade through all the other stuff.
How do you know an in-house sensor isn't reading the temperature wrong, and telling the pump to run? You don't.
How do you know what flow restriction there is in the rest of the CH circuit that could be making the pump unnecessarly noisy if it *does* run at night time? Modern pumps automatically vary their speed- they don't have "gears", they're CVT automatics.
Can you be sure a zone valve isn't wired wrong and is forcing the unit on even when programmed off?
None of these things are inside the ASHP or in the manufacturer's pervue.