You can programme the slope of the flow temperature versus ambient temperature with a bit of faffing about via the command unit, but I've found that just setting it for a flat 40 deg C seems to work OK.
The relays I used were 12V ones, that plug in to DIN rail mount sockets, and have additional LED modules to show which relay is on. The DIN rail socket fits into a small consumer unit type box (I bought a cheap one with a clear cover so I could see the LEDs). I powered the relays via a 12V Meanwell DIN rail mount power supply.
The relays I used were standard 12V DIN rail mount sockets type ones, with the LED indicator modules, like these: http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/RELAY-MODULE-2CO-12VDC-/172741730264?hash=item2838359fd8:g:r4cAAOSwgv5ZSlRh
The diodes were cheap 1N4001's soldered together with leads to wire up to the relay modules. To allow easy connection of the external thermostat wiring I used DIN rail terminal blocks, like these: http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/2-5MM-12-PIECE-DIN-TERM-PACK-/172750888899?hash=item2838c15fc3:g:s5IAAOSw8GtZUmeF these fitted behind areas of the consumer unit box where I hadn't punched out the front covers, to hide the terminals.
The Meanwell 12V power supply I used was one of these:http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Mean-Well-DR-15-12-12V-15W-Step-Shape-Din-Rail-PSU-/132076460496?hash=item1ec05ed9d0:g:anMAAOSwnHZYifqK (it needs to be the step shaped one to fit a consumer unit type housing, I think, and keep the terminals protected)
IIRC, I used a 9 module DIN housing, just a bare consumer unit type unit with no switches etc fitted, like this one: http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Consumer-Unit-enclosure-MCB-Fuses-box-coffret-electrique-5-9-13-18-26-module-way-/251353151094?var=&hash=item0
I can check tomorrow to be sure whether it's a 9 or 13 module box.