The Mixergy has dedicated tappings for the PHE circulator, unfortunately in a retrofit situation the use of existing cylinder tapings is mandatory.
You can add your own tappings believe it or not, provided you have an immersion element boss.
Buy a tank connector, Cut a hole where you want the tapping, drop a string in from the immersion boss and hook it with wire in to the new hole, drop the tank connector down the string so it locates in the hole , screw on nut. Pat yourself on the back :). I've done this a few times on old tanks. You can even retrofit secondary coils but that can be quite tricky.