What estimator did you use. 3 weeks sounds a bit quick to me but I've not seen or can't remember the plans or elevations.
Whats your quantities or brick and block. If you were to allow maybe 75 pence a brick and 2 quid a block down your way does that get you somewhere in the ballpark? Very rough and im not sure of rates your way.
With regards to getting some decent quotes try to get an introduction or reccomendation off other trades or previous customers. That way your not a cold calling random you're ringing them up saying I know X who's extension you built or I know X plumber who has worked with you guys says you do a decent job etc