Only read your abstract of what you intend to do.
Does your incoming mains support this, there will be a drop in flow once all them bends in the pipes and the length of the pipe rums is taken into account.
Effectively two different types of heating systems. Not a problem as suck, but needs a bit of careful thought re flow rates, flow temperatures emitter areas and the different heat distribution within a room i.e. where the radiators are located.
As I am sure you have read from people that run their HPs efficiently, they are effectively 'on' all the time, so room usage is just a distraction. Treat it as a room that is always at 21°C. (maybe a slight setback at night).
Fit as much as you can by all means, the marginal costs difference is minor, and maybe negative.
Don't think there will be need for additional wiring, but it does depend on if it is an AC or DC coupled system. Initially get a suitable inverter for your capacity that is acceptable to your DNO i.e. how many amps you can connect per phase.
Worry about battery storage when you build the second house, the energy market will have changed (again) by then.
You have to fit one, so no point fretting about it. If you put the cabling into conduit, you can fit another cable into it for battery storage (EV charge points are usually in a garage, where batteries may go in the future).
Bet that is (expletive deleted)ing noisy, fit quadruple glazing.
As an after thought, and replying to this
This is why some of us have to do the right thing, we cannot rely on others. It also stops them having to know anything.