if the MVHR is only taking a couple of hundred watts can the relay base not do it directly? I'm on Radiolink and use their alarm interface to switch the MVHR and EM lights
you can generally calibrate cheapo dial thermometers easily enough to match them at your chosen temp. On some the dial can be rotated, you can pull the bezel, pull the needle and reposition on others, or you might even be lucky and find a wee setting screw...