It’s been a long 12 yrs 🤣
I use to frequent ebuild ( I think that’s what it was called ) even before my build commenced . When that disappeared I did worry ! . But found the resurrection in buildhub .
I knew I couldn’t do the build on my own .
A non standard design with no help .
I assumed ( incorrectly ) bco would be on my back with a self build and ‘help’ me … the opposite occurred .
Everything in life I do on my own ( no rude jokes ) ; I can learn what I need to get the job done ( this does not make me an expert ! ) .
Buildhub has been invaluable - I built a house via the internet . I think that’s (expletive deleted)ing amazing tbh !
So for all the noobs with no experience etc I do have advice !
You are either cash rich and time poor or the opposite.
Cash rich you can pay others to accelerate your build .
Time rich you do it yourself .
As I am self employed and didn’t have the cash ( no (expletive deleted)er is going to give me a self build mortgage ) then time is my friend .
Remove stress points . A self build mortgage will put you under massive pressure - to release the next payment .
Don’t rent temporarily when you can buy .
To partially fund our build we sold our house and bought a shitty flat . This took any rental issues off the table and equity appreciation allowed the crap flat to add to the finance of the build once sold .
We then lived on site - a cash saving for sure at the expense of ‘normality ‘ .
By not being tied to a loan nor tied to time I (expletive deleted)ed about for a decade and got it done .
Stress existed - but it was rare .
This is the way !
I still have a hundred bits to fanny around with . Remove pressure , remove stress . Appreciate everyone’s in a different situation . But don’t let the build destroy you . It’s a bitch and you are the master ( bit of bdsm there for my followers ) .
Ask for help on the forum always . (expletive deleted) things up - so what ! . Waste 1000’s on a balls up - so what . Haven’t got a clue ? - so what .
Plan a strategy!