A friend mentioned that they don't think they are allowed to encourage someone to make an objection. Their use of language would be a grey area in that context anyway. I haven't been able to find anything online to suggest they can or can't do it.
We didn't no, they have been aggressive towards my partner in the past and also to our elderly neighbour (unrelated incidents), so didn't feel that we could have the conversation with them.
I think we are ok in terms of their objects, potentially the only one being that they think it's out of character with the area, but i think thats subjective anyway.
It will be taller, but should look similar to what it does now, plus we are on a road of houses and bungalows so there is a bit of a mishmash there anyway.
Guess I was hoping to have an ace up my sleeve so to speak.