Thank you all, this is comforting. The ASHP is using the 6000kwh over the 10 months. The rest is farm/business units which is why it reaches the £7200.
I think you are suggesting that I can turn up the water temperature on both the underfloor and the hot water system and monitor effect and usage.
I think one issue has been if the hot water is low, then when you have a bath or shower little to no cold is dded and so with 4 in the house, there is not enough hot water for all getting ready for an evening out. With the old boiler system at 65C, there was hot water that you then topped up with cold, so plenty in the tank for all.
As I said at the start, it seems like we are having to change our lifestyle for the ASHP.
Your comments are all amazingly helpful though and much appreciated.
One final one might be how much would it be worth if I took it out and went back to a boiler. Cost to install £12,000