Thanks for all the replies
The system will be separate with PV and probably wind, powering the office with battery storage. The island grid will power the main house and I will use it to charge the batteries if local generation is low. Hopefully remove the need for a diesel generator. No problem with any DIY aspects of this. Think I still have bits of a home built wind generator I started after being on a course at CAT in the early 90's run by Hugh Pigott.
Heating and DHW is still something I'm thinking about. Thanks for all the advice. I'll use the appropriate forums to follow up on this.
Answering a couple of other comments further up.
@jamiehamy Have fun on Eigg. Where are you staying?
@Cpd Our friend on Eigg used to be Schellenberg's gardener back in the 90's, might be the same person,. Do you remember his name?
@ProDave Thanks for the offer, all help will be welcome.
One question has there been any bulk buys been setup before on the forum? I've heard of groups of self builders organising containers of PV direct from China as well as other material direct from manufacturers.