Thanks all! Having read everyone's feed back I think I'm going to avoid recessed ceiling lights and move the vapour barrier closer to the interior.
So it might look more like this:
1. Roof tile
2. 25 mm Battens
3. Breathable membrane draped 10mm
4. 15mm air gap in 175mm rafters at 400mm centres
5. 150mm rockwool slab insulation between rafters
6. Tecsound 10 mass loaded vinyl 5mm
7. 50mm battens (perpendicular to rafters), space between filled with 50mm rockwool slabs
8. Vapour barrier
9. 50mm battens (perpendicular to last layer), space between filled with 50mm rockwool slabs
10. 17mm resilient bars (perpendicular to last layer) to create service layer, non ventilated air gap, and decoupled ceiling
11. 2 layers of acoustic plasterboard (25mm total)
12. Skim coat
One more question though - rafter specific insulation is incredibly expensive compared to normal rolls of insulation. Knauf have told me normal insulation is not suitable for rafters however I would have thought the counter battening on the underside will be enough to support any insulation above it? I understand why it might be needed on a roof where it is resting on the plasterboard but it shouldn't be needed here - am I correct?