Sadly in the summer, my brother's wife died very suddenly and unexpectedly.   She had been something of a hoarder and none of the family had been to visit them for some years. They would only come to us.   When we went to his flat we found it was a mess.   We had professional cleaners in and then I arranged to have it totally refurbished, so that it would be easier for him to look after once he moved back in. He has been staying with my parents for the last few mont