My husband and I decided to sell the matrimonial home and build 2 separate houses as part of the separation agreement. We qualified for the CIL self build exemption as we each planned to make our build our home. My husband died before his property was completed and I have been trying to sell it to pay off his debts since. I now have a buyer but their search alerted the council to the fact that the property was being sold before the three year period and they have said that if we complete before